The wonderful thing about love is that there is always more to give.  It’s not something that has a maximum capacity.  It keeps growing.  You can give love out wherever it is needed.

I have thought of how to put this post into words for months now.  Nothing seems to be right, which is why I have been so vacant.

The thing is, my family has started a new and wonderful adventure.  We are currently in the process of becoming a licensed foster family.

I have been asked by so many people how we will manage, and why I would want to bring a random child into our house.  Do married families get asked this?  Or is it just single people?

It’s not a decision I made lightly.  The seed has been planted since I was a little girl.  I always wanted to be a foster parent.  The plan of how it was to work out may have looked different, but so many of my plans have changed from the way they were imagined.

After talking with people and researching for the past year, I finally took the leap in March and filled out the initial forms.  I talked with HJ about it.  I talked with family and friends.

This summer, I began taking the PS-MAPP classes.  This is a once a week, for 3 hours, evening class.  I have had a home visit, and still have 2 more to complete.  I have paperwork, lots of paperwork.  HJ and I have talked a lot about it.

And I am ready.

I truly feel that we were all put on this earth to help in some way.  No matter how large or small your impact may be, it makes a difference.

I asked a friend if it was hard when the baby went back to his birth family.  She said it was awful.  But she would (and has) do it all again.

These children need to know unconditional love.  The deserve to be loved, held and taught if only for a short time.  They have been placed in these situations due to no fault of their own.

In a way, I guess you could say our family is expecting!  And not only are we not finding out the gender…we also don’t know the age or the race.  Personally, I have always loved a good surprise.  HJ and I are both excited to start this journey, and have been preparing our house for a little one.

Please, ask questions and let me know experiences you may have!

 

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5 Thoughts on “Growing Our Family

  1. I’m really excited for you! I became a foster parent over a year ago, and I am about to help the five year old I’ve been caring for since September reunify with his mom. He is my second “placement,” last summer I cared for a sibling pair (both toddlers at the time). This is also something I’ve wanted to do since childhood and I’m so glad to be doing it. If you want to connect I’d be happy to talk/email about my experiences.

  2. I’m so excited for you! We did this for a while and had the chance to love on some wonderful children that eventually all went back to their parents. I’ll be praying for you that things go smoothly!

  3. way to go!!! what an awesome decision!

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